Last night, in the company of 5000
other women, I heard Hillary Clinton offer advice I took to heart. She
said, “Take criticism seriously, but not personally”. For such a simple
sentiment, it struck me as profound. In fact, it’s not too much of a
stretch to say that those six words knocked our collective socks off.
The room grew rather still. I could tell that there were other recovering
perfectionists, like myself, in the room for whom that struck home.
Clinton spoke as part of the Unique Lives and Experiences
lecture series. It was warm and intimate despite the warehouse-like
setting in the Metro Toronto Convention Centre.
I have personally always found it
very hard to take criticism, and I know I’m not alone. In professional
contexts I have found myself sitting across from a superior, trying to
maintain my composure as I’m delivered a mixed bag of feedback – some
good, some bad. Instead of receiving negative feedback for what it
really is – a review of performance and notes for improvement – I
typically hear only the following: You
are not good enough. Palms sweaty and heat rising up my
neck, I often struggle to keep my cool.
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1 comment:
How up to date are your resource links and info? http://www.labour.gov.on.ca/english/es/pubs/internships.php turns up error 404: Page not found.
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